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06-28-2009, 01:12 AM
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I think im just going to let him know what happened and let him handle it, thats what i would want. I dont wanna go between the two of them back and forth ill just let him know what i know, and from there he can do what he wants.
| You're going between them if you tell him yourself, just in a different way. If you tell him without any input from her, then he has to choose between trusting you and trusting his pregnant girlfriend (and remember that he's happy about the pregnancy right now). If she refuses to come clean to him, you don't have a choice. But giving her that chance makes your friendship with your bro safer.
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06-28-2009, 01:24 AM
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If you're his best friend, you'll make sure he knows ,one way or the other, that she cheated, regardless of whether he's the father.
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06-28-2009, 02:20 AM
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Fuck these different approaches. It's your boy, you can't do him dirty. Tell him the truth. If I was in his shoes, I would want my friends to tell me to have the upper hand and formulate some sort of game plan. This chick is a hoe, fuck the relationship. Save your friend before he gets in even deeper.
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06-28-2009, 03:00 AM
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Originally Posted by Sapo Da Great | |
Fuck these different approaches. It's your boy, you can't do him dirty. Tell him the truth. If I was in his shoes, I would want my friends to tell me to have the upper hand and formulate some sort of game plan. This chick is a hoe, fuck the relationship. Save your friend before he gets in even deeper.
| I agree with you but what if he's friends with all parties involved?
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06-28-2009, 07:58 AM
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I agree with you but what if he's friends with all parties involved?
| I've been in this position before. I say you still tell, because you ought to save the party who did nothing wrong. So maybe you're hurting the chick? So what... she's the one that screwed up. Yeah, it's a bad position to be put in, but nonetheless it's the right call to let your buddy know. |
06-28-2009, 10:23 AM
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Why protect this whore? The fact that your asking for advice on this makes me wonder. Do you have 'feelings' for this pig? |
06-28-2009, 10:34 AM
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Pretty much what everyone else has said. She has to tell him or you do. Talk to her, give her a chance to tell him, if she doesn't after about a week it's up to you as his friend to tell him. His heart is going to be broken without a doubt, but it'll be even worse after the baby is born (hopefully) and he gets attached only to find out then. |
06-28-2009, 12:35 PM
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Or, you tell her that she gives you head or you're going to tell. Then you tell your friend that not only did she get knocked up by some other dude, she blew you to bribe you to keep your mouth shut.
| Would you have to record this as evidence? 
Seriously, I had this happen to one of my closest friends in law school. His fiance cheated on him at a wedding I attended. I witnessed the mash session before the cheat and I debated on whether or not to tell him. I did - and the friendship was irreparably damaged. But, I do not regret that decision. He ended up marrying the cheating fiance too.
At a minimum, you can always take the neutral 'always get tested' approach. Unless they are engaged, that seems quite neutral to me.
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06-29-2009, 04:21 AM
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I personally wouldn't wait long after you talk to her to tell him. If she is a really good lying bitch she will find a way to make it difficult for you to tell him. Not sure how smart she is....
Regardless there is no way you can't tell him, no matter if you are friends with everyone involved. If he is your best friend and you know something like her girl cheated, much less if a baby is involved, then you have to tell him. If you aren't going to tell him, you might as well try to get some from her too because you aren't really that good of friends. |
06-29-2009, 06:11 AM
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Dude, as a husband, father, friend and starting the adoption process. You tell your boy now. NOW! Fuck her. Take your boy out for some beers and tell him, man to man. And if he wants to get loaded you are the driver. Tell him to keep his dick in his pantsand where a rubber. Now you see what happens.
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06-29-2009, 06:42 AM
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I think you need to tell your buddy. He'll be hurt, pissed at you and her, but it is for the best he takes care of this now instead of after the kid is born. Let us know how it turns out. |
06-29-2009, 07:14 AM
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Tell her you'll tell if she doesn't provide explicit pics and vids. Do it now before she blows up. Post 'em all here. Then tell your buddy that she cheated AND posted explicit pics and vids online.
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06-29-2009, 07:42 AM
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Tell him.
Does anyone else know about her tryst with her ex? This may help.
Be prepared you could indeed lose him as a friend, at least temporarily. But, in the longrun, you show him that you are indeed a true friend. Just let him know that you put yourself in his position and would want to know all the details.
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06-29-2009, 07:42 AM
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Tell on that cunt. Bros before Hoes. That's all you need to know. Now if you run the scam right, you might be able to parlay her guilt into a few blowjobs and maybe some pics to share with us for payment for all our sage advice.
No, really. Get them together, tell her in front of him, I'm gonna spill if you don't and let the chips fall where they may.
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06-29-2009, 07:44 AM
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Its been said, but take it to her with the intent of forcing her to tell him or you will. Either way the bad situation is about to get worse.
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You don't have much choice but to talk to him about it. You could quiz her about it, but if she flips out it's gonna get so complicated and irrational that it would be like a bomb going off in your vicinty. Let him work it out with her, but make sure your friend doesn't give your name unless she asks. You may be opening Pandora's Box". n5
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07-02-2009, 07:10 PM
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OK the old fucker with a shitt load of kids is going to chime in here...
we all have to detach our penis and use our other heads... Theres a new borns future at stake here for christ sakes...
It takes more than sperm to be a father. You have to talk to the bitch ONLY... Let her know whats up and determine who's baby it is. She knows, they always do...
Having a child changes people drastically. Perhaps this female changes her ways... Perhaps this dude truly wants to be a father. This news would one render the child born into a broken home from jump if your dude is indeed the father or two render the baby fatherless from jump if he isnt and the other dude doesnt stand up... If your dude is truly in love and wants to be a father then you should confront the female first... Many a man has raised a child he wanted that unfortunately isnt his, be carefull before your crush his dreams over something as casual as sex... | | |
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